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Date Eliot?

I saw Eliot Spitzer at my health club a couple of years ago. At that time he was not in the spotlight, this was before his re-emergence on CNN and talk shows.  He seemed to be alone, he was in … Continue reading

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Loveless sex, I don’t wanna be ya

Of course I knew it was a mistake. I knew it before, during, and after. I had known that for many years, that loveless sex is not for me. But sometimes you say Yes because you’re human, it’s a full … Continue reading

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Light my fire

When I was a senior in college, I fell in love with Keith. He was in a rock band on campus, and one fall afternoon they performed “Light My Fire” after Keith dedicated the song to me. I was mortified, … Continue reading

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A discrete affair, you host

Bill has come back into my life.  My cyber life at least, for now. He returns to me for sexual fantasies. I want him on the tennis court, and I’m tempted to have him off the court too.  It would … Continue reading

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Composite boyfriend

Men like to sext, and sometimes I like it too. But this week when I received two overtures on my phone, I sighed. I’d like to sext with someone who could potentially be a boyfriend. Neither of these men fit … Continue reading

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My gay boyfriends

A single girl in a large city must have her share of gay boyfriends. I also happen to work in an industry that is shock full of gay men.  Today I feel grateful for these men in my life. Some … Continue reading

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Never married…at your age?

My single guy friend exhorted, “You’re not supposed to date anyone who’s never been married!” We like to remind each other when one or the other has transgressed our dating rules.  At our age, we’re both 50something, we must date … Continue reading

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